Wednesday, February 16, 2011

The beginning

           My first post how do I start? Hmmm, well, I'm not much of a writer but I'll do my best. I'll start out by giving some background information. I'm 5'9 and about 80 lbs over weight. I had plenty of friends growing up but not a lot of girlfriends. I knew how to talk to girls but always ended up in the dreaded friend zone! At the age of 21, Id only been with three woman. Two were only a one time thing and only kissed four girls total! I stayed in a horrible relationship because I had no confidence and thought it was the best I'll probably ever do. Despite the fact that I was miserable, I thought I couldn't find anyone better.

After 2 years of being in this horrible relationship, I had it. Being alone for the rest of my life almost seemed like a better deal. I was to scared to leave my girlfriend so like any chicken I went online to look for help. I bought books, read articles, joined seduction forums, watched countless videos and even called a few strangers online for advice. I stayed with my girlfriend and approached a countless number of woman. I learned through trial and error. I learned that looks aren't as important as I made them out to be. I was getting good at talking to woman, making them laugh and pushing through the anxiety. I eventually left my girlfriend and went on my path. I am by no means an expert but I've come a long way. 

I studied social dynamics and how woman interpret the things you say or do. I went out and practiced these skills. I learned what does and doesn't work. It's one thing to know what to do but you have to believe and be genuine. Its not about changing who you are but being the best you that you can be.

In this blog I want to help the people who are having trouble as well as write about my growth. I still have a lot to learn but I'll post my failers, my victories and everything in between. I'm also here to help you so if you have any question email me at (its on my page also) and I'll post the advice in my blog.


  1. Good job in turning your fortunes around. I think a lot of its down to gaining confidence, and once youve got that you can go far.

  2. It's all in your head, you see ugly people with good looking people all the time.

  3. Oh my, this is some seriously good advice! thanks for sharing keep up the good work!

  4. Great idea! Add it to my follow list!

  5. hahaha very interesting topic to talk about. Definitely going to follow you, keep blogging!

  6. :O
    I'm in quite a happy relationship right now, but who knows, maybe there will be something on here that will make it even better? ^_^
    But I do have quite a few friends I'll be referring here. xD